That's lovely. I completely agree, especially your point about bring the growth and safety with you when the space is dissolved.

Honestly, more and more I feel like all I can do is watch my own actions and refrain from judging and condemning others - and when I've been in settings where that's the predominant attitude, I've felt so safe and at ease, regardless of whether the space was explicitly designated as "safe" or not, and regardless of what the stated rules were.